Day 2 CD del Carmen to Orizaba, Veracruz

 I had a great sleep, the bed was so comfortable compared to the one I have had while in Progreso.  I got up and took Kahlua out then went back to pack up things and get ready to go.  I had a quick look at their buffet but it wasn't anything to write home about so I settled with my usual yogurt, which of course I had to share.  I got the car loaded and took her for one last walk and off we went.

The next part of the journey would be through the state of Tabasco and that was where we had the shakedown on the way there.  Well no problem at all this time.  I did my usual only English, showed my card and off I went.  A little ways down the road there were pilons set up again and a few vehicles on the side, one with flashing lights but was unmarked.  The guy in the road was not dressed in uniform and was waving a flashlight to stop.  I did but only lowered the window part way.  Again I said English and he responded to me, asking where I was going to and if everything was okay.  This all seemed a bit sketchy to me but a bunch more vehicles were lining up behind me.  He waved me through and as I went I saw a bunch more people in a shelter with uniforms.  Not sure if it was training or what but not like any others I have been through.  The rest of the trip through Tabasco was uneventful except for the long ass lines at the toll booth and inspection stop at the state line.  I think I wasted an hour waiting in line to get going again.

Past into Veracruz which is a beautiful state.  Reminds me of a rainforest, with the start of mountains and valleys.  They were doing a lot of burning of fields so it was quite hazy and had to drive through the smoke several times.  Again, uneventful except for the state of the highway, I caught a few good potholes, but the Ruby just kept eating up the miles.  I've stopped in Orizaba for the night and it is surrounded by small mountains.

Somewhere along the way I saw a herd of cows taking themselves for a stroll over a bridge.  I thought it kind of odd but maybe they were just out looking for a better field to eat in and of course by taking the bridge, they didn't have to try and cross the Autopista.  I haven't seen any more pig trucks but lots of chicken trucks.  The things I do to entertain myself.  I do have my copilot but she is not much good at conversation and when I start singing she looks at me like I've lost my mind.  Mostly she just sleeps, the thing she does best besides eating.  Here I caught her cuddling with her flamingo.

Well I'm hoping to push tomorrow and get to Matehuala.  That is where the cute little resort townhouse hotel was on my way down.  Then hopefully the following morning I can get Kahlua in for a vet appointment for screwworm certification.  Just another hoop to jump thru in the states.  Murphy's law says that if I dont get it, is when they will ask for it.  If that all pans out the way it is in my head, then after the vet, I could make the run for the border and be in the US on Friday night.

Until tomorrow

Bromistas y Deseos,

from Kahlua and I

Lost in Mexico - On my Way Home

 Well I have to say it is bitter sweet.  I don't really want to have to head back but I knew it was coming.  I have had such a great time and met so many new friends that have all embraced me.  I hope everything works out and my next trip will be permanently.

I have to give a big shout out to Andria and Martin, Tacos and Brats and AJ (for helping me get loaded up and ready to go)

I stored a bunch of stuff that I don't need in the motorhome at my new home in Progreso.  So it made a lot more room in the Jeep for the return trip.  My amazing new landlady is taking care of it for me and has my space open for me as soon as I want to return.  She is a kickass Chingona and that is probably why we get along so well.  I can't wait for the trouble we will get into.

I ran around this morning sweating my ass off to get the last things packed and ready to go and then proceeded on my way out of town with my partner in crime. (even if all she did was sleep.).

  I think I'm glad I only had to say goodbye to 2 people face to face.  I did get messages from others to have a safe trip and to keep in touch.

I got on the highway and all was smooth.  No checkpoint stops or problems.  I got to just outside of Champoton and had to pull over, one for the dog to have a break and 2 the view, water was extraordinary.  I hit the side of the road where there was a little pull out and the point had a swing in a tree right on the waters edge.  The water was a beautiful turquoise.  It was breathtaking.  Yes I saw it before on my way down but seeing it again was still amazing.

I wandered my way along the coast for an easy 5 hour drive and found my hotel for the night.  I got checked in and then took Kahlua for a wander.  She slept almost the whole drive.  I had time enough to have a quick shower and clean up and then I had a zoom with my Spanish teacher then 2 hours on a video call with Lorie.  I think she has missed me.  

I took Kahlua out for another walk and watched some baseball, then went to have a bite to eat.  Well that turned into a shitshow.  The waiter never paid any attention to me and what I ordered, I would never eat, so finally when I called him over I was able to send it back and I was not charged for anything.

Otherwise the hotel is not to bad, decent room, good view and allows pets.

I will be up in the morning and making an 8 hour trek to Orizaba, Veracruz.  I will try to remember to do checkins along my way, so you all can see my progress and also know that I am safe.

Bromistas y Deseos,

From Kahlua and I

Lost in Mexico - Final Monthly Edition

 Well April is here and the clock is ticking down rapidly.  For some reason we have been busier then a two peckered owl.

I have had more tattoo work done and will be getting the final touches tomorrow.  It has already been 2 appointments put it is going to be amazing when it is finished.  Dana wanted to get another but time did not allow it.

My friend Tara decided she needed a birthday vacation at the last minute again, so I got her booked and away she flew.  She is loving our little village and wants to come back again next year.  We had an impromptu birthday party for her at one of the bars. 

The owner got a DJ in and we invited all out friends to come party.  The owner even went and got her a birthday slice of cake.  Dana and I ended up partying way too hard for her, as we sent her home as she was so tired.  In the process of the evening we received some Cuban dance lessons from one of our favorite local waiters who came out to party with us.  Guess I did okay as we have been in constant communication since.  I guess I have a very good friend now!  Maybe more when I return.  The lessons continued at home where we kept the party going and got Tara out of bed.  Well she actually locked us out so we had to wake her up.  The next morning I was supposed to take Dana for a tattoo and the Jeep for service before the return trip.  Well we both woke up late, got dressed and ran to the car.  Wouldn't you know it the Jeep would not start.  The battery was dead.  Shit, Damn, Fuck, probably a good thing as I may have still been drunk.  I made a few calls and was able to get a battery charger, hooked it up and went for a nap in the hammock and then back to bed.  When it showed it was charged I tried to start it and still no luck.  I found a mechanic who could come to the house the next morning and he jumped the car and said it was the battery.  He took me to the store and got a new battery installed.  The next day he did a service for me and everything is right as rain again.  Glad it crapped out now instead of the middle of nowhere.

The girls went to Merida for a day with new friends Henry and Sandra, aka Tacos and Brats.  They showed them all around some of their favorite haunts in Merida and had an amazing day.   A few days later we had them over for an afternoon swim and charcuterie, heck I even made salami roses for the platter. (keep that to yourself, as I don't want it to get out that I can actually cook)

We took Tara to do the rest of her souvenir shopping and a walk down the Malecon.  Well every time we turned around, she was missing.  We needed to keep her on the dog leash so we didn't loose her.  We finished with a few margaritas at Barloventos and then went to Baileys for a free sampling of new signature drinks.  After we went home and I made one of Danas new favorite meals, tuna steak burgers.  Tara had never had it but enjoyed every bite of it.

I've seen the doctor again and she requested more tests, which I again will receive the same day. It amazes me how quick and painless getting medical assistance is here.  Hopefully she will be able to do a quick zoom with me and discuss results before I leave.

I have found my house for the next season and have entered a long term lease for it.  It is smaller but everything is included and way closer to town.  We can easily walk to all of our haunts.  I can't wait to get back and I haven't left yet.

I guess Dana has successfully cleared the shelves of her favorite tequila as we had to go to several stores to find her some to take home.  She lucked out and got the last 2 bottles at the 4th store.  She also bought herself a 1 of 2 original prints of Frida for her new place that I will be bringing back as it is so large.  I actually thought about it myself but not having a place to put it kind of changed my mind.

Today, the girls have been cleaning and packing.  Tara is leaving today and Dana leaves tomorrow.  We will be taking Tara to the airport at 5 and then going for Danas last night out at Baileys with our friends coming to wish her well.

I don't know where the time has gone but it is time to return.  I will leave on the 21st and am basically doing the reverse route back but maybe one less stop thru Mexico.  I need to stop up north and get Kahlua checked for screwworm to enter the states.  Just another cash grab really, as the reports I have read, the border guards don't even ask for it.  Better safe then sorry, Murphy's law say if I don't have, then they will and she will end up quarantined and my schedule will be shot to hell.  I am guessing I will arrive in Vancouver around the 28th or 29th, have a visit with my girl and then catch the ferry home possibly via Victoria so I can see my nieces and griece (SusieQ's girls).  When I get to Parksville, I will be able to move the motorhome to my new pad for the summer, just need to catch a ride back to my car.  I will be at Parkridge by the Horne Lake exit until its time for the next excursion.  

So until I start nightly ramblings of my return trip,

Bromistas and Deseos,

From Kahlua and I

Lost in Mexico - March Madness

Hard to believe that I'm in the home stretch now and what a whirlwind it has been.  The first week of March was full of appointments, doctors, nails, other beauty appointments, (I have eyebrows, eyelashes and lips now!)  CT scan, and Dana had dental appointments but we will get to some of the details a little later.

Dana and I took a drive so she could see even more of the coastal communities and we went out to Telchac Puerto.  Its another small community on the Gulf and she was amazed at how big the area actually is.  As we passed through the village, sure enough she spotted a liquor store so I had to circle the block and come back.  I waited in the Jeep and she went in.  It took her a bit to come back so I knew she must have succeeded in finding what she was looking for.  She had successfully bought out all her preferred wine in and around Progreso and had not been able to find more.  Sure enough I see her heading for the trunk with a box in her arms.  She bought a case to bring home and I was laughing my ass off at her.  She gets in the Jeep proclaiming "don't judge" and I said "I'm not, I'm laughing, did you leave any for the locals?"  She did but probably not much.  Just so she doesn't sound wine dependent, the stock in our town is not that great, so you need to get it while you can.  It has been a running joke that she is emptying the shelves.  On the way back we stopped at the pink salt flats so that Dana could see it.  She was amazed with the colour of the water and how they collected the salt from the small lakes.  It was cooking out so we didn't wander around long and headed home so she could enjoy her wine.

We went to a surprise birthday party for our friend and new landlady Andria.  The night started out great and she was surprised.  Typically you can't get anything past her but her husband did this time.  They had a live band that was amazing and food, just bring your own drinks.  Shortly after dinner  the mumbling started and we were watching the lightening in the distance.  Sure enough, the skies opened up and most of the people bailed and went home but the diehards stayed and continued to party under a couple of the pop up gazebos.  Most were huddled under the larger one but a few moved to the back one where the food had been.  This one was not in the best of shape and we had to keep pushing the water off the top causing huge splashes everywhere and everyone was getting wet anyways.  Eventually it collapsed and everyone was under one.  The street flooded, the patio was soaked and our feet were drenched also.  There were water fights going on between folks and I ended up in one of them with one of the local waiters.  By the time we called an Uber to get home,  my purse, feet and pants were soaked and I looked like a drowned rat.  When I went to get in the Uber, my pants stuck to the seat and they ripped.  I was pissed as I really liked those pants although Dana is going to try and repair them when she can find some matching thread.

We got the electric bill for the past 2 months and just about had a heart attack.  It was $7000 pesos roughly $550 CDN and we barely use any.  I'm the only one with AC in my room and I barely use it, we don't put any lights on until dark and then it would only be the patio light where we sat.  It really didn't make much sense.  I contacted the house owner to see if she could look into it as the bill that arrived when I first got here and the house was empty was even more.  There wasn't much she could do so we were stuck paying it.

I had a fight with my Wise card and it would not work for me.  I finally contacted them and was told it was locked as I entered the wrong PIN too many times.  It may have been once as some of their POS machines scramble the numbers on the keypad but I know I only might have screwed up once.  It was an easy fix thou, I just had to go to an ATM and ask for a balance check and it was good to go.

So on to the appointments.  I went in to get my legs waxed and Dana was with me.  Somehow we convinced her to get her lip waxed instead of tweezing it.  She saw me laying there with no reaction so she figured she could handle it.  Well we got her on the bed when I was finished and Gaby went to work.  she started on the first side and when she pulled the strip off Dana exclaimed "SON OF A BITCH!!"  extremely loud.  Gaby and I both broke out in laughter.  Dana didnt have much choice but to let her finish.  When she pulled the second half off Gaby put her hand over Dana's mouth, both to keep her quiet and to soothe the burn.  Dana refuses to ever do that again.

I went to see a doctor to both have a skin tag removed from the back of my leg and to see if she had any insight into my disability.  The skin tag was quick and relatively painless.  As for the long covid, she sent me for a CT Scan, wrote a script for some more natural alternatives and made some other suggestions to follow up with.  I did go back to see her for the results of the scan and she has given more suggestions going forward.  I will follow up with her on my return.  As for the CT Scan, I contacted the radiologist for an appointment, went in and had it done, paid $180 and I had the full results report and images within 7 hours.  The system here is way better then home and I can't wait to return to see if they can actually help improve my situation.

We had a new tattoo artist come to the house and Dana had one done and then he fixed the mess of my right leg.  He came for a follow up and filled in the back of my leg.  The coverup is not perfect but it is way better then it was and having the back completed it is way better.

So I have been keeping quiet but I have been going on dates with locals.  I went into Merida the night before Danas family were to arrive.  I was almost home and a text pops up from Dana but I did not listen to it.  As I was pulling into Progreso, I get a call from Greg and Michele (my parents friends that were here for 2 months)  I answered it and Greg fills me in that I'm needed immediately at home.  Dana is having a meltdown as her family missed their flight.  Shit!  How to ruin a good evening.  Their flight was scheduled to leave at 1215am on the 18th.  Her daughter thought it was midnight on the 18th.  Okay, semantics, but they were 20 hours late for their flight and all the flights the next day were already full.  I got in the door, told Dana to get me some wine while I changed and I would be back to help get them organized.  I managed to get them on a flight with flair to Cancun the next evening, it would just mean that we would have to leave at 5am to get there to pick them up and approximately 8 hours of driving for me.  Well this turned into a bit of a shitastrophe.  Cancun is approximately 3.5 to 4 hours away.  I have done the drive in around 3.  Their flight was arriving around 715am, but with deplaning, customs and baggage, I figure we had an extra hour before they were out of the airport.  So leaving at 5 should get us there by 830, in perfect time.  When I got up that morning and woke Dana, I realized I had forgot the time zone change between states and that it was actually 6am there.  Well pedal down and I drove better then the Mexicans and pulled it off in 2.5 hours.  The highway was quiet and no checkpoints to deal with and the Ruby turned into a sportscar.  Their reunion was great and we started their adventures in the Yucatan when we left the airport.  They all crashed for the hour drive to Valladolid to get something to eat. 

We then went to some ruins that are not as touristy as Chichen Itza.  We went to Ek Balam and it was amazing.  Even thou my legs would allow me to walk up the ruins and Dana didn't have the energy, her granddaughter did go to the top of the main pyramid.  It was amazing to see the history within the ruins.  Her youngest granddaughter kept asking to go home to the pool and i finally snapped and warned her that if she asked again she would not be allowed.  not even 5 minutes later the words start to come out of her mouth and Dana and I (in one of our all too frequent same track thoughts or verbal comments - sorry LJ, D and I are way too close now) at the same time start to shush her and her oldest goes into a full blown panic, dancing, swatting and freaking out (thinking something fell from the trees) and in a delayed reaction the youngest turns tail and runs a few hundred feet thinking something attacked her sister.  Dana and I laughed so hard, we could not explain what was going on.  It was so funny.  We left the ruins and took the scenic way back instead of the highway.  The girls all napped out again on the way.

Kahlua had her first encounter with an iguana.  A couple of them were on the wall and fell onto the patio.  One of them made a bolt for it but the other sat there for a minute, until Kahlua figured it out and the chase was on.  Damn those suckers can move and gave Kahlua a run for her money.  That little lizard made a beeline across the patio and yard and up the side of the house with Kahlua hot on its tail.  The iguana ran up the side of the house and scaled the metal gate (covered in chicken wire) and was clinging to the side of the corner of the house.  The house was smooth so not sure what he was holding on to, but then he dropped and fell into the neighbours yard.

On our return trip to take Danas family to Cancun airport we came across an accident and traffic was moving slowly in the left lane.  As we got closer, Dana said there is a car in the ditch, then we see a semi on its side in the ditch.  There is vehicles lined up on the side of the road and on the side road that runs along the highway, cars, tuk tuks and bikes everywhere.  People on the side of the road, the highway and in the middle trying to cross the median.  As we see the semi, a man emerges from the ditch with a pig carcass on his shoulder, then we see a pile of pork on the side of the road.  Well wouldn't you know but the pig truck crashed and the grapevine has gone into full swing.  The whole community has come out to get them a free side of pork!!!  Well needles to say the pig jokes start flying and we laughed for miles about it.  We thought we should have stopped and strapped one to the roof rack!  

We got to Cancun and spent the night and dropped the girls off early the next morning for our return trip to the beaches.

We have both been taking Spanish lessons and I'm getting pretty good.  Maybe I will become conversational.

I will try and get one more post in about the month of April.  I will be leaving on the 21st and returning on my own (with Kahlua of course) and I will do my best to blog each night of my trip back.  I have an rv pad booked and paid for when I get there and already have appointments stacking up.  I have a 2 day cognitive and functional assessment for LTD at the beginning of the month.

Anyways until the next edition,

Bromistas y Deseos,

from Kahlua and I

Lost in Mexico - February the month of Family!

 So I ended the last edition with the arrival of my parents.  I picked them up at the airport and had beers for the boys and mini wines for the ladies.  They were tickled pink to have a drink waiting for them on the drive to the beach.  When we got to our house, after a rather long detour due to road closures for the Carnival parade, I had prepared a charcuterie board for everyone to snack on and also more wine and beer.  They all appreciated that I went out of my way to have this ready for them on arrival.  We sat and kibitzed for a few hours then I took Greg and Michele to their condo down the road while my parents settled into their room.

Over the weekend, we spent our time in town or by the pool, nothing to strenuous as Pops was up and down with his health.  The first night he did take a stumble on one of the many steps up/down around this house.  He was ok just a little unsteady on his feet so we put him to bed again.  He was looking for mom and figured she was upstairs but was actually outside.

My brother and his family all arrived on the 10th and boy oh boy was the house full now with 8 of us.  The kids were quiet at first then they became more comfortable especially the first morning when they were thumping up and down the stairs and knocking on Dana's door way to early.  I think Ryan was looking for me but picked the wrong door.  They got read the riot act and tried to be quieter the rest of the visit.  The 4 of them went out exploring everyday while we stayed closer to home.  The folks Dana and I went to look at a couple of houses.  One could have been more reno then wanting to do and the other was amazing, just have to try and work out some financing and he was not ready to sell until next season anyways, so we said we would keep in touch.  Kahlua wasn't to keen on the kids, but I think it was because they were moving so fast around the house and were loud, both of which she is not comfortable around.  Eventually after many treats, Kahlua did warm up to Lauren a bit and even caught her in bed with them.  Every Saturday night we went as a group with Greg and Michele to a local pub for dinner and music.

On the 15th, everyone except Dana, packed up to head to Playa del Carmen and an All Inclusive resort.  My brother and family had decided to split their holiday between the 2 locations and wanted us to come along for a few days.  They decided to go wandering on their way there and we just went straight through.  Pops was pretty good not complaining about my driving although he did notice the speedometer at 140 but kept quiet.  He did say I was a good driver but didn't know why I needed to go so fast.  Unlike him, I don't drive into ditches!  We got to the resort and they had screwed up the reservation and put us in a room with 1 bed and a couch.  Guess who wasn't moving so good the next morning!  I did a tour of the resort as a travel agent (part of getting a reduced rate) while the old folks went to the waterpark to find the kids.  When I was done my tour, I went to the spa for a massage and was also able to get our room swapped.  I went back to the room and packed everything up for the folks so we were ready to change rooms and I was so happy to have a bed.  Never mind the size of the upgraded room we got.  Pops had a bit of a hard time with the distances, so we got him a wheelchair to roll him around in, even though he complained he didn't need it.  We met the others for dinner at an Italian restaurant and the steakhouse the next 2 nights. 

The next day we all went to the waterpark and eventually Ryan coaxed me into chasing him around the park in the water.  Big mistake, I sure felt it for the next couple days.  We said goodbye to them the last night as we knew we wouldn't see them in the morning and told them to keep in touch.  The 3 of us drove back to a very excited puppy and happy Dana.

The next day I shipped the folks off to their friends for a few days and some much needed peace and quiet for Dana and myself.  After having an extra 6 people all talking at once, quiet was indeed required.  We still met up with them for our Saturday night out in town but they spent the weekend away to return home and get organized to fly home on the Tuesday.

It was nice seeing them again, have had lots of visits in the past couple years and finally having a chance to get to know my niece and nephew.  When we were leaving the resort, my nephew, Ryan asked me to please come back to Toronto to see him this summer.  No promises Ryan, but I will try.

After they left it was back into our regular routine of laundry, tanning, shopping and drinking with a few outings here and there.  I had my eyebrows done and they look pretty damn good.

I took Kahlua in the pool one afternoon with her life jacket on.  She didn't like it much but boy did she paddle to the edge to get out.  A few days later, it was hot as Hades again and Dana was in the pool swimming.  I pretended to look at something in the grass and called Kahlua over.  When she got beside me at the edge of the pool, I pushed her in.  She managed to doggy paddle her little body to the edge and got out on her own, then raced me to the patio.  I forgot I left the doors open and she was headed straight inside to shake off.  Needless to say, she was none to happy with me until bedtime and stayed on Dana's side of the table.

So it was a pretty busy month with the family but good overall.  Now we will have a few weeks to ourselves before Dana's girls arrive and she is making the days jam backed for them.  I know I'm late in make this post but its been busy.  As of writing, I'm a little over a month from returning home, so I have to get all my shenanigans in now.

Until the next edition,

Bromistas y Deseos,

from Kahlua and I

Lost in Mexico - January Shenanigans.

 January has now come and gone and for me that's been 3 whole months here and 2 for Dana.  This could be a bit longer but the first 2 weeks were rather uneventful, so I'm doing it all as one instead of splitting it up.

So the first half of the month consisted of a lot of swimming, tanning and drinking with a few adventures thrown in to break up the monotony.   We went to town for lunch one day to meet Dana's friends that live in Chelem at Barloventos.  Her favorite waiters have now adopted me also giving big hugs and free tequila.  I have to order a margarita as I can't bring myself to shoot tequila.  Before we went on this trip (and as always) I taught Dana a new word, that she kept practicing.  She can't get the type of tequila she likes right but she nailed this word no problem and was ready to use it when we went to lunch.  It is the word for "handsome" and I even told her how to use it in a sentence - "Eres guapo", translates to You are handsome.  So armed with her new word off we went to lunch and as soon as she saw and received her hug from her favorite waiter she drops the compliment and he just laughs at her stating "new word?"  Well the word stuck with her and as we walk around she offers all the men a "guapo" now.  We had a great lunch with her friends, then did a little shopping and headed home.

My friends finally made it to their winter house in Chelem.  I met them a few years ago when we all went to Belize before getting our residency in Mexico.  Finding out that not only are we neighbours here but also in BC.  They live in Nanaimo also.  They were delayed on their flight down due to winter weather but I went over for the afternoon to visit with them and see if the dogs got along well, which they did.  Have been trying to head over again but the end of the month has been none stop for us.

Dana and I both went for appointments at Gingers Jungle and Spa.  Dana had never had a facial before and decided that she wanted one.  I thought that I would try something different to help with my ailments and see if it caused any improvement.  It was booked with the chiropractor on staff and he did do a slight adjustment but also gave me stem cell therapy to my back and hip.  I did notice some improvement but then over did it one day and between that and the weather, I have had more aches and pains again.  When the warmth comes back, we will see if it changes.  Dana talked almost all the way through her service, asking questions, wondering what all the different devices were.  I wanted to get a picture of her with the red light mask on as we were both laughing about her looking like Jason Voorhees.

Those were the highlights for the first half of the month, as for the second half, we have been busy.  To start with, we decided to do a road trip to Playa del Carmen to meet up with Toni and Beth.  We managed to find a cute little condo that was pet friendly so I could bring my canine partner in crime, otherwise I would have been sending Dana on her own via train or bus to find the girls.  So Dana was a bit concerned about the drive due to the one bad checkpoint I went through on my way down, but I kept telling her not to worry.  She had a small panic attack when we had to go through Merida to get on the toll highway to Cancun but we did not have to go through any roundabouts so she was better besides dealing with the Mexican drivers.  Once we got on the toll highway, we came across our first checkpoint just outside of Merida and we breezed through it as we didn't speak Spanish.  Now about an hour or so down the road about the halfway mark we came across the next checkpoint.  This officer decided we needed to pull over to get checked out.  So pull over I did, Dana having a mild panic as she dug out her passport.  For some reason the federal officer went to her window and asked where we were from, so we told him and then he checked Danas passport and asked her if she was single and she said yes.  Then he looked at my resident card and asked me if I was single and I said yes, then he decides to tell me that I'm his wife, and he's going to marry me!  Then he continued flirting while he decided to look in Danas purse (as it was open in front of him) and questioned about her portable ashtray and if it was cigarettes or marijuana while giving it a little sniff.  I asked him if he wanted a soda and went to the trunk to get him one.  He kept flirting and asked for my number.  So figured, what the hell we can talk, doesn't mean it will go anywhere.  He let us go and away we went to the last stop at the state line laughing about this crazy federally and how long it would take before he messaged.  The last checkpoint it was a female officer and she got us to pull in also.  she asked me to step out and open the trunk for her and she looked in the cooler.  Then looked in the back seat but only in the bag with snacks and let us go.  Off to Playa we went to find our condo and the girls.  The navigation system took us on a zig zag route through town and we found the condo and unpacked our stuff, took the dog for a little wander and then proceeded to sit on the balcony and have a few drinks.  While we were sitting on the balcony, people watching, Dana was shouting out "Hola" to everyone walking by(as we were a block from 5th Avenue) as there was lots of foot traffic.  First bunch never responded, then she started getting folks answering her.  We finally made plans for dinner with the girls and set out to meet them.  On our way, my phone went off and sure enough the time I predicted I got a message from the federally saying hi and checking in.  Well the place they picked was great and ended up having a live band with great music.  The other 3 proceeded to get a little tipsy and Toni and Dana were up dancing most of the night.  We ended up meeting a couple from PEI there Pat and Sam and they had a great time dancing togeather while Beth and I sat and talked.  We ended up closing the place down and then walked along 5th Ave to our condos.  

We were hoping to hook up the next day but for some reason nobody contacted the other.  So Dana, Kahlua and I decided to stroll along 5th Ave and check things out.  Kahlua got a Mexican collar and Dana picked up some shirts as she had not found anything in Progresso and she wanted a keepsake and I got a couple of tanks and a special gift for someone that I can't mention as they may read this.  We went back to the condo to rest a bit before dinner.  We sat on the balcony and Dana was back to her Hola shouts and one couple laughed stating "your still there" thinking we had never left.

We got ready and off we went for dinner at Alux.  An Alux is a small mythical creature like a sprite, that protect the crops, forests and caves.  They often play practical jokes or cause mischief, so it is advised to leave offerings for them so that they protect travelers.  The restaurant is in a cave and I have been before but Dana wanted to experience it.  She was in awe of the place.  She never saw them but there were also bats flying around.  We had an amazing dinner.  I had a grilled octopus appy and pork belly for my main.  While Dana had roasted shrimp and a prime steak that was so tender it melted in your mouth.  Neither of us had room for dessert.  After we paid, we went for a tour of the rest of the cave and found the alter room and left an offering.  I left a cigarette and Dana left a $5 Canadian bill as there was no Canadian money there.

We did not end up meeting withe the girls after dinner as they both weren't feeling well.  Not sure if it was from the night before or if they caught a bug.  So we just headed back to the condo and decided for an early night.  We had a couple of drinks on the balcony and I took puppy for a walk and we went back to the pet store and bought collars for Krystal's pets so she could see them on video chat.  We had a good sleep and then got up and packed for the trip home.  The federally was looking forward to seeing us again on the way back and was messaging me when we were leaving but somehow that checkpoint was not set up when we went through.  So I did not run into him again on the way back but he has continued to message me to this day.

 

We have had a run of bad weather.  Several Nortes have blown in and also the artic front that has come down from up north.  The Yucatecans have not had cold weather like this in 20 years and were all bundled up against the cold.  Dana had a blanket over her when we were sitting outside at night to try and keep warm.  She ended up getting sick and was in bed for a few days.  I took Dana to the doctor so that she could see about getting something for the edema in her legs and ankles.  She called me in after the doctor weighed her to try and calculate her weigh into pounds and she was over the moon happy as she had lost 21 pounds in the 6 weeks she has been here.  I also got on the scale to check my weight and I finally broke 200 and was down to 190lbs.  So we both left the doctors doing the happy dance!

Ismael finally surfaced since Christmas dinner.  He apologized for not being around but he had broken up with his girlfriend.  He also told us that his mom was here from Tabasco.  So we went and picked her up so she could have dinner with us also.  She was so petite and tiny compared to Ismael and very pleasant.  She showed us pictures of her other children as we shared pics of our girls.

This week, we were out several times. On Monday we went to the market in Chelem and bought a bit of stuff.  Then we went to Barloventos to meet up with Danas friends again for lunch.  As we were leaving and saying goodbye to folks we know,  a woman runs up to hug Dana exclaiming "I know that voice anywhere".  It was Pat and Sam from the restaurant in Playa del Carmen.  So the next day we met up with them for lunch and a few drinks.

We had a down day on Wednesday, preparing for my parents to arrive the next day.  And sure enough, I was heading to the airport to pick them up as well as their friends Greg and Michelle.  I brought a couple beers for the boys and mini bottles of wine for the girls and they were super happy about that.  We came back to the house and I had a charcuterie tray ready for them and some wine.  They enjoyed the snack as they were all starving and we sat around and bullshitted for a bit before I took Greg and Michelle to find their condo.

So now the busyness of entertaining starts with my parents and then my brother and family arrive next week.  So that is the excitement for January.  The weather is improving now and we will be cooking again this weekend.

Until next time,

Bromas y deseos 

from Kahlua and I

Lost in Mexico - Nochebuena, Feliz Navidad y Feliz Ano Nuevo!!

 Ok so we will continue with part 2 of December and the holidays and get everything up to date, so I can slack off again for awhile lol.

As I said we were getting ready for the Christmas festivities.  We decided to buy a little tree and decorations to put up and place the Santa Sacks under it.  Dana was adamant that it was her job to decorate the tree so I left it be and finally had to push her to stop tanning and put it up on the 23rd.  Well she got the lights on it, then kept trying to get me to do the rest.  I kept saying no as I have to cook the dinner, except for the things she had to have her way.  So in the end Dana completed the tree and I brought out all the gifts for the kids to put under it.  As you can see tanning and swimming was first priority, so this is the way you decorate a tree in Mexico!  We went out shopping and got the turkey and the last of the items we needed for the dinner, stuffing fixings, some veggies and any last minute beverages as we were unsure if there would be a no sale day due to the holidays.  I started some prep on the 23rd and got all of the bread ready for the stuffing along with the onions and celery and spices.  I chopped up all of the veg and had them ready in a pot with water so I didn't have to worry about that.  Just the potatoes to peel with the help of Dana as they were new potatoes and a thin skin and I don't play well with knives (no peeler) and the turkey to prep and cook the next day.

On the 24th, I cooked the sausage for the stuffing and got it ready for the bird.  Cleaned it, cooked the giblets for the spoiled princessa and got the turkey in the oven.  Everything else was ready to go when it was time, so we sat down to relax and wait for our friends to arrive.  Puppy enjoyed her cooked giblets and they were gone in a heartbeat.  Dana got her brussel sprouts done the way she wanted them and got the potatoes ready.  We were enjoy a drink and a friend I had met in Merida called to say he was on the Malecon with his son and asked to stop by so I invited them over for some Christmas cheer and then of course offered them to stay for dinner as they were not planning on having one at home.  Eventually Ismael and family arrived.  The boys are all very quiet, even when playing and his little girl, Aithanna is the sweetest little thing.  Dana took the boys in the yard and was trying to teach them horseshoes with a plastic set she brought with her.  Eventually I called all of the kids to the tree and got them to find the bag with their name on it.  Nothing was very expensive but they loved the novelty of the Canadian items and enjoyed the small gifts that we got for them as well.  Glow sticks that Lorie send were a hit.  Aithanna was hugging both her stuffed cat that Krystal sent for her and her little pony that we got her.  She sat with Dana and had to open and check all of the items in her bag and then spent some time colouring in her book.  The turkey turned out amazing and everyone crowded around the table and enjoyed the dinner, most of which was new to them.  The stuffing and gravy and the brussels were a hit for my friends son.  He told Dana repeatedly how great they were.  Dana and Jess(Ismael's girlfriend) cleaned up the kitchen after I served a festive cake for dessert.  We sat and talked for a bit and then Ismael et all needed to leave.  I'm not sure if he had to take his children back to Merida or not but he did have to get ready for work that night.  My friend and his son left shortly after that so Dana and I could get ready and prepare for the night ahead.

In Mexico they celebrate Christmas on Christmas eve and they call it Nochebuena.  It is the main celebration which is marked by a family feast, midnight mass and gift giving as well as FIRECRACKERS!!  This is what we were getting prepared for now as we knew it would not be a good night for the Princess.  There had been some small ones going off over the course of the preceding week but tonight would be one of the worse.  We had the music up loud and were trying to drown out the noise to no avail.  Sure enough, puppy became anxious and was pacing, panting and circling worse then I have ever seen her.  I decided to go to bed and get her in my room with the tv cranked up in the hopes of settling her down.  Nothing was working as she climbed on my head, pulling my hair, standing on my arm and the nightstand.  She tried to hide in the closet until a really loud one (like a bomb explosion)

went off and she came flying out of the closet.  I finally gave up and found the gravol and fought her to get one in her.  It took a while but eventually it kicked in and I had to make sure she was still breathing cause she turned into a dead dog laying beside me, but I would finally be able to get some sleep at 4am.  She ended up hiding by my pillows behind my head and falling asleep as in the picture before she finally moved and was flat out beside me.  I knew that fireworks are expected in Mexico and it would be a challenge for puppy but this week was going to be the worse for her as the firecrackers will be every night for a week.  Thankfully, they weren't too bad in our neighbourhood leading up to New Years.  I went to the vet and asked for something to help her get thru New Years as again it would be mayhem at midnight.  The vet gave me 2 pills and said to give them about 10pm so that they would take effect and she would be calmer at midnight.  Well I was contemplating a bit earlier and just I was thinking of it a few started.  So it was now pill time.  I managed to get one into her and then the fight was on for the second one.  Eventually Dana who couldn't believe how hard such a little dog could fight, went to the kitchen and mashed up the pill, mixed it with some chip chip and put it on a cracker and she ate it!!!  Thank goodness.  I was trying to wait until midnight with Dana but they were starting to be more frequent so I took puppy to bed with a loud tv and hid away.  She actually did pretty good considering the people across the street were letting them off in the street and there were a few doozys.  She paced a bit but laid on the floor for the most part and eventually when all was quiet she did come to bed and settle around 2 am.  I have one more dose from the vet in case I need them and may go back and ask for more for the drive home to help her out.  I'm not sure if the same happens at Easter which is a 2 week party here called Semana Santa but if it is then I will definitely need more to get thru that holiday before heading home.

Christmas day Dana and I opened our sacks and decided to have Mimosas.  We went thru 2 bottles of Prosecco while talking to our families at home.  New Years morning we just had coffee with tequila crema and another quiet relaxing day.  On the 2nd, I woke up at 3am with a crippling pain in my sternum.  I did not feel nauseous but tried to throw up, nor did I need a movement.  I took a gaviscon to try and calm it, thinking it was heartburn but nothing was calming it down.  I could not get comfortable and was near tears. Around 8 Dana came in and she got me the gravol that was downstairs and |I took that as I was sending messages and cancelling appointments that were booked that day.  Thankfully and I don't know why but the gravol worked and it knocked me out.  When I woke the pain was gone.  I stayed in bed until the next day but still had sore ribs (like if you have had a huge coughing fit or dry heaved for hours, yet I had neither)  It was really quite strange but I am back to normal for me.  We have been pretty lazy since the holidays but are about to get back at it.  We are heading out today for laundry, some groceries and lunch.  Tomorrow we are getting our nails done and then we will see what the rest of the week/end brings.  I would like to make a plan and go off exploring somewhere so we will see what happens.

So to all of you back home that are freezing, we are thinking of you and are not envious of your fabulous weather.  Merry Xmas and Happy New Years from Mexico.

Bromas y Deseos from Kahlua and I